Relationships

You can't get around it in this life. Your success or failure depends your relationships. If you pick good ones you will do good if you pick bad ones then you are going to be fighting those people your whole life.When you are growing up you have childhood friends you don't think about these people as Allys they are just your friends Now as you get older you realize these are the people who are going to help you make you what you are in this life. Friends are very important. So pick them wisely. Spouses are another relationship you have to pick and this is as important as all the rest. So take you time and try and make sure you know this person before you commit yourself to them...It can be the difference in being happy and not. These are the pickers and they a the most important.
   Now we have all those relationships that you have no say over you know your crazy Uncle Joe everyone says is crazy cause he is.. Grandparents, Aunts Uncles Parents and your neighbors  these people are hardwired into your life through genes or just logistics so get along with them and build bonds and ties with these people. You are there to help them and they are here to help you in some way or another..Children are a whole other ball of wax.You love these people more than anyone else in the world because they are you. And lets face it everyone loves their self the most of all. Then your kids are next in line. Until they start to go there own way and will not do what you tell them any more  This is where the problems between parents and kids arise. They just don't listen to you anymore now they are listening to their peer group and so called friends. So just bit your tongue and go with it until they grow up and grow out of those people. Now go out a form the best bonds and relationships you can so you can live a life as full as you can. One Mans Opinion..