Yes after the game is when you see who wants to win. That is right some people cry some get mad some don't care some players show no emotions at all. You can tell a lot about what kind of players you have by the way they lose. Winning show nothing its only through adversity through loosing do you get a glimpse at the heart of your players and how bad they won't to win or if they are just going through the motions. If you are winning you don't work as hard you don't do the extras that will make you better at the next level It is easy to become complacent and set in your routine. Only by lousing and having a real desire to win will a player work harder and sacrifice to get better and it is always conditioning you have to tune the instrument to play your best. That is the only thing a player can control in sports conditioning. All most all other aspects of the game is controlled by other people The coach the referee the other teams players your teams players. The only thing you can control is how hard you work and how bad you want it. And as a Coach you can't see that until you lose some close games that you won't to win.
Here is another thing after the game. There is two rules in Coaching Educate and Motivate show your players what you want them to do then tell them how good they are doing it that is it no negative comments don't be a fault finder and remember players want to win more than you do. Everybody makes mistakes even you.so don't be a critic be a coach a helper a friend a confidante a cheerleader a teacher not a tyrant a dictator I am the coach I am larger and in charge. And after the game find all the good points of the game and tell your players how good they did win or lose. Be real don't make up stuff players can see through false praise and you lose face credibility and if they don't believe you they want listen to you. Then you can't coach them. So have fun win or lose. After the game!!!!!!!!!!
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